Episode 48: Lose Yourself
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In previous episodes, we discussed the cost of transforming your life (most recently in Episode 44: Intention Giving). No one talks about the greatest cost of losing yourself (who you are/identity. What you do. Who you engage with, etc.)
· Being a new version of you is hardest around those that you are most deeply connected. They expect you to be the same. We desire consistency – it builds trust.
o Ex. Drinking with your friends. You decide that is not who you want to be…they re-evaluate themselves (am I ok?) and often take that out on you…
· Losing yourself is also a LOSS. You will grieve the loss. Imagine your best friend dying. The entire year of firsts…it is the same thing. You have to decide, now that I am the new version of me, how do I do birthdays? holidays? get-togethers? How do I spend my time?
o Ex. Going back to drinking…
· Losing yourself can also be the most exciting thing though…don’t forget…don’t be afraid…
o Eminem – Lose Yourself
o Lose yourself in the music, the moment you own it, you better never let it go… You only get one shot, do not miss your chance to go, opportunity comes once in a lifetime.
How does losing yourself help you LEAD Lucky? Models that change is possible. Your changing and improving gives others hope.
Closing: What is one thing you will take away from the episode today? What will you do?
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