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56. How to De-escalate Your Teen

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The tension is building and the situation is starting to escalate from bad to worse. We’ve all been there, haven’t we? As easy as it is to join our teens in this escalation, they need us to be regulated and available in order to de-escalate. Opening up the conversation helps us create a deeper connection and enables both sides to open up a bit more about what’s going on and their perspective on the situation.

“If you have somebody in front of you who is completely dysregulated, you are gonna want to stay regulated as much as you possibly can.”
- Beth Hillman

Let’s dive into how to do this in today’s episode!

In this episode on how to de-escalate your teen, we discuss:

  • The three brain states we experience: the survival state, emotional state, and cognitive state;
  • How to de-escalate your teen when they’re reacting from their survival state;
  • How you can help your teen when the situation is escalating;
  • Pro-actively de-escalating situations;
  • How you can enable a deeper connection with your teen and get a better understanding of their perspective;
  • Guiding your teen to become an independent adult;
  • And more!

If you’d like to connect, you can find me on Instagram (@bethhillmancoaching) or go to my website www.bethhillmancoaching.com. And if you’re interested in working with me, you can learn more about my private coaching here or my group coaching here.

And remember parents, the change begins with us.

- - - - - - - - - -

Ps. Are you getting great value out of this podcast? It would mean the world to me if you could leave a review on Apple Podcasts. This way, you will help me reach and help more parents of struggling teens develop healthy responses and boundaries instead of acting out of fear and anxiety. You can leave a review by clicking here, scrolling to the bottom, tapping to leave a star rating and then write your review. Thanks so much!

And if you haven’t already done so, make sure to subscribe to our show so you don’t miss any of my future episodes!

Got a question or something to share? You can always send me a message by clicking here. I'd love to hear from you!

🔆 Small GROUP COACHING program starting September 4th, 2024 🔆
Sign up or learn more over at www.bethhillmancoaching.com/groups
I hope to see you there

  continue reading

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The tension is building and the situation is starting to escalate from bad to worse. We’ve all been there, haven’t we? As easy as it is to join our teens in this escalation, they need us to be regulated and available in order to de-escalate. Opening up the conversation helps us create a deeper connection and enables both sides to open up a bit more about what’s going on and their perspective on the situation.

“If you have somebody in front of you who is completely dysregulated, you are gonna want to stay regulated as much as you possibly can.”
- Beth Hillman

Let’s dive into how to do this in today’s episode!

In this episode on how to de-escalate your teen, we discuss:

  • The three brain states we experience: the survival state, emotional state, and cognitive state;
  • How to de-escalate your teen when they’re reacting from their survival state;
  • How you can help your teen when the situation is escalating;
  • Pro-actively de-escalating situations;
  • How you can enable a deeper connection with your teen and get a better understanding of their perspective;
  • Guiding your teen to become an independent adult;
  • And more!

If you’d like to connect, you can find me on Instagram (@bethhillmancoaching) or go to my website www.bethhillmancoaching.com. And if you’re interested in working with me, you can learn more about my private coaching here or my group coaching here.

And remember parents, the change begins with us.

- - - - - - - - - -

Ps. Are you getting great value out of this podcast? It would mean the world to me if you could leave a review on Apple Podcasts. This way, you will help me reach and help more parents of struggling teens develop healthy responses and boundaries instead of acting out of fear and anxiety. You can leave a review by clicking here, scrolling to the bottom, tapping to leave a star rating and then write your review. Thanks so much!

And if you haven’t already done so, make sure to subscribe to our show so you don’t miss any of my future episodes!

Got a question or something to share? You can always send me a message by clicking here. I'd love to hear from you!

🔆 Small GROUP COACHING program starting September 4th, 2024 🔆
Sign up or learn more over at www.bethhillmancoaching.com/groups
I hope to see you there

  continue reading

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