Setting Your Relationship Up to Win with Lisa Marini
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Let’s be honest. Relationships are challenging. They are mirrors to our trauma, triggers, and deepest pain.
As our guest puts it, “Relationships are the laboratories for our deepest growth”. But by using a bit of sports analogy and learning the blueprint, we can alter our brain, heal our nervous system, and enter our relationships with empathy and compassion to thrive collectively.
And thankfully, Lisa Marini, a brain-based relationship, life coach, author, and speaker extraordinaire, will teach us how to create a relationship where both parties feel mutually supported, seen, heard, and understood.
Throughout this episode, Lisa blew me away with how she is trailblazing the world of relationships through the lens of neuroscience in a fun and simple way that resonates with everyone.
Luckily for us, she also shares how she helps her clients and offers snippets from her top-selling book “The Couples Playbook: Relationships Are a Team Sport, Set Up Yours to Win”.
So, whether you’re single, in a relationship, or dating someone new, check out these key takeaways to discover how to create a solid foundation in your relationships so they’re setup for success.
- [02:57] How to create a solid foundation with your partner
- [06:04] What is the team huddle concept?
- [11:55] The importance of creating plays
- [16:12] How to establish your core needs while addressing your partner’s
- [20:05] Why we must connect to our body to uncover how we feel about someone
- [22:33] The brain and how it relates to our relationships
- [26:42] How to emotionally regulate your relationships
- [30:15] Team huddles: why you need to self-regulate before communicating
- [37:05] What is the facts model?
- [40:14] How to communicate your core needs with your partner
- [43:33] Why creating structure leads to freedom
- [48:10] Why co-regulation is the key to generating compassion
- [52:47] How to manage conflict within relationships
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Website: https://lmarini.com/
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Corissa is a Somatic Trauma-Informed Coach™ & Narcissistic Abuse Specialist™ who empowers women after they’ve endured narcissist trauma to rediscover who they are, reclaim their power and find the clarity and courage to move forward and live a life they love. Corissa is also a recovering people-pleaser and codependent who has endured way too many narcissistic relationships to count! She coaches not only from her knowledge and training but also from the wisdom she has gained from her own healing journey.
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