Girl Stop Playin with Your People w/ Courtney Newell | Episode 166

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Did you know there’s an actual science to uncovering your hidden genius? It’s not about filling out a “dream job” worksheet—it’s about understanding how your brain is wired, identifying your natural aptitudes, and using them to thrive. This isn’t just a self-discovery exercise. It’s a game-changer for your career, your relationships, and how you show up in the world. Betsy Wills and Alex Ellison are redefining how we approach career discovery, proving that finding the right path isn’t just about landing a job—it’s about creating a life that aligns with who you actually are. ✅ Betsy Wills – Cofounder of YouScience, a groundbreaking psychometric assessment platform reshaping how we understand our talents. She’s also the Director of Marketing & Branding at Diversified Trust and a frequent lecturer at Vanderbilt University and NYU’s Stern School of Business. ✅ Alex Ellison – Founder of Throughline Guidance, a global college and career counseling practice. She’s a sought-after writer, speaker, and expert in college readiness and career development. ✅ Together, they co-authored Your Hidden Genius: The Science-Backed Strategy to Uncovering and Harnessing Your Innate Talents. Discovering your hidden genius isn’t just about career success—it’s about tapping into what makes you, you . Connect with Betsy & Alex: Website (Free Downloads): www.yourhiddengenius.com Book: https://www.harpercollins.com/products/your-hidden-genius-elizabeth-m-willsalexandra-ellison Related Podcast Episodes: How To Be You, But Better with Olga Khazan | 288 Finding Purpose Through Human Design with Emma Dunwoody | 228 195 / Finding (And Using) Your Voice with Amy Green Smith Share the Love: If you found this episode insightful, please share it with a friend, tag us on social media, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! 🔗 Subscribe & Review: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music…

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On this episode, you get to meet Courtney Newell, a powerhouse entrepreneur known for her expansive growth in the business world. From starting a PR firm fresh out of college to running multiple franchises, Courtney shares her journey, the challenges she faced, and the wisdom she gained along the way.

Did I mention she manages all of this while balancing marriage and being a mommy of 3 young boys? Tap in to find out how this is possible, and leave with insights to get closer to your purpose.

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Girl Stop Playin | Personal Development for Black Girls

Girl Stop Playin with Your People w/ Courtney Newell | Episode 166

Girl Stop Playin | Personal Development for Black Girls

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Did I mention she manages all of this while balancing marriage and being a mommy of 3 young boys? Tap in to find out how this is possible, and leave with insights to get closer to your purpose.

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205: Green Flags in Relationships: What Healthy Love Looks Like 34:39

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Hey girl hey! 💚 We've spent plenty of time talking about the red flags (and if you missed that episode, baby—go run it back!). But today? We’re flipping the script and focusing on the green flags—the divine signs that let you know you're on the path to a healthy , whole , and happy relationship. In this heartfelt solo episode, I’m sharing the real-life green flags that showed me my man was the one —not just because he’s fine (and he is, okay!), but because he’s consistent, emotionally intelligent, and committed to loving me the right way. I'm talking communication that brings clarity, not confusion. A man who respects your boundaries. A man who plans , protects , and provides peace. 💅🏽 So whether you’re dating, healing, manifesting, or just out here minding your standards —this episode will help you recognize what healthy love actually looks like and why you deserve every bit of it. Sis, no more struggle love. We’re elevating. We’re healing. We’re walking in purpose and partnership. Let’s get into it. 💕✨ Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girlstopplayin/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy…

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204: Red Flags in Relationships: Stop Ignoring the Signs 42:07

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Girl, let’s keep it all the way real ! In this episode of Girl, Stop Playin , I’m breaking down the relationship red flags we love to overlook — from love bombing , gaslighting , and emotional unavailability , to the subtle signs we sometimes romanticize in toxic relationships. Whether you’re dating with intention , navigating a situationship , or healing from a toxic ex , this episode will help you stop second-guessing your intuition and start calling it what it is: your God instinct. I’m sharing personal stories, lessons learned the hard way, and some truth bombs to help you protect your peace and choose YOU. So if you’re tired of the same relationship cycle or you just need a reminder of what healthy love really looks like, press play, take notes, and pass this episode along to a sis who needs it. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girlstopplayin/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy…

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203: Girl, Stop Letting These Men Manipulate You w/ Winter Harris 50:09

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Sis, you already know what time it is! In this episode of Girl Stop Playin, we’re getting REAL about love, marriage, and the red flags we tend to ignore with my girl, Winter Harris —author, media maven, and reality TV star from Love & Marriage DC ! 💍✨ We’re diving DEEP into her personal journey through two divorces , the lessons she learned the hard way, and why women’s intuition is our greatest superpower . If you've ever questioned whether you're settling, ignored those nagging doubts, or felt rushed into something that didn’t feel quite right—this one's for you! Winter keeps it all the way real about love-bombing, fake kingdom men, and how to protect yourself from manipulative relationships . Plus, we talk about the role family plays in exposing toxic behavior and why it’s crucial to pay attention to a man’s relationship with his mama ! 👀 This episode is your official wake-up call to stop second-guessing yourself and start making intentional choices in love. Because the biggest business decision you’ll ever make is who you marry —and baby, we’re making POWER moves only! 💪🏾 🎧 Tap in NOW & don’t forget to share this with your girls—because we ALL need this conversation! #GirlStopPlayin #TrustYourGut #LessonsInLove 💕 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girlstopplayin/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy…

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202: Pray, Then Plan 16:53

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Hey girl, hey! 💁🏽‍♀️ You already know we don’t just talk about it over here—we BE about it. And today, I need you to lean in close because this episode is the confirmation you’ve been waiting for! 🙌🏾 We’re diving deep into why it’s so important to PRAY before you start PLANNING . Because let’s be real—how many times have you set goals, made vision boards, and planned out your whole life, only to hit a brick wall? Sis, sometimes we be out here doing the most without ever checking in with THE MOST HIGH! 👏🏾 Check out the sermon that inspired this episode here In this episode, I’m breaking down: ✨ How to align your plans with God’s purpose for your life ✨ The different forms of prayer (yes, your actions are a prayer too!) ✨ Why “Thy Will Be Done” is the ultimate manifestation hack ✨ How to stop forcing what’s not meant for you and start flowing into favor Plus, I’m giving y’all a little life update about our Mexico travels and why my family is making major moves to live life on OUR terms! 🌍💰 And before you go, if you’ve been thinking about becoming a certified travel agent, I’m hosting a LIVE Travel Agent Tell-All this Thursday at 8PM EST! You do NOT want to miss this game-changing info. 🔥 Click here to sign up ! Press play, get these gems, and let’s make sure our next move is our best move! 🎧💜 #GirlStopPlaying #PrayThenPlan #Manifestation #FaithOverFear #Alignment #Podcast Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girlstopplayin/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy…

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201: You're Sitting at the Wrong Table 7:21

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"Sometimes God removes your seat at the table ‘cause they was serving poison!" Whew, baby! Listen—this episode is a word for anybody who’s ever felt played, betrayed, or confused about why certain doors didn’t open. I’m sharing a real-life lesson on how God’s rejection is really His protection, why we gotta stop trying to hold on to folks who ain’t for us, and how to trust that what’s meant for you will never miss you. ‘Cause when that season is up, baby, it’s UP ! So if you been in your feelings about a fake friend, a missed opportunity, or a situation that just ain’t mathin’—this one’s for you! Tune in and let this be the confirmation you need to get up from that table before you end up on the menu! 👏🏾🔥 Interested in becoming a Certified Travel Agent? My Certification Course helps you get started in just six weeks! Learn More Here Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girlstopplayin/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy…

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200: God's GPS System 15:34

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Y’all, we made it to EPISODE 200 —and I’m just over here feeling blessed, honored, and grateful !✨ Not only is Girl Stop Playin’ turning THREE this month, but next month marks 10 years since I first started podcasting! Whew, God is good!🥹 In this special episode, I’m sharing a word that hit me deep: How do you know where you're going without God's guidance? If you've been feeling lost, frustrated, or unsure about your next move, THIS is the reminder you need to tap in, stop playing, and start listening . Prayer is talking to God, but meditation is how we hear from Him —and baby, you might be blocking your own blessings by skipping the second half of the conversation! I’m breaking down how to ditch the struggle, align with your divine assignment, and let go of what’s not meant for you —from career moves to relationships (because let’s be real, we’ve ALL prayed for things we had no business wanting! 👀). PLUS, I’m spilling the tea on my travel agency relaunch and how you can get in on the action! So if you’ve been looking for clarity, confirmation, or just a sign to get back in alignment —this episode is for you. Press play, take notes, and let’s get in position for ALL the blessings coming our way! 🙌🏾💫 🔗 Ready to elevate? Click here to learn more about our travel opportunities and how YOU can become a certified travel agent. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girlstopplayin/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy…

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Solo Sermon: Prioritize Your People | Episode 199 Part 2 17:17

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Sis, let’s talk about it—when was the last time you really sat down and asked yourself, What am I working for? Who am I giving my time to? And is it really worth it? In this episode, I’m diving deeper into priorities—how easily we get caught up in overworking, overspending, and overextending ourselves for things (and people) that, in the grand scheme of life, just don’t matter. After my husband's heart attack, I had to get real about what truly deserves my energy. And let me tell you, some of these relationships, habits, and expenses had to GO. We’re talking about: 💰 Overspending – Are you working just to fund unnecessary expenses? 💡 People-Pleasing – Are you keeping relationships out of obligation, not alignment? ⌛ Time-Wasting – Are you pouring into people who wouldn’t do the same for you? This is your reminder to check in with YOURSELF. Are you holding onto things just because you’ve invested time? Are you stuck in cycles that don’t serve you anymore? Let’s get clear, let’s realign, and let’s make sure we’re keeping the main thing the main thing. Tap in, reflect, and let’s stop playing about what (and WHO) really matters! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girlstopplayin/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy…

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Solo Sermon: Pain x Priorities | Episode 199 7:49

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Sis, let’s talk about it—sometimes life will humble you real quick and force you to rethink EVERYTHING. After my husband’s heart attack, I couldn’t ignore the signs any longer. We had to get real about our priorities, because what is all this hard work for if it’s costing you your health? In this episode, I’m sharing the tough conversations, the bold decisions, and the mindset shifts that came from this wake-up call. From pulling my son out of school to questioning whether we even need this big ol’ house—everything was on the table. Because one thing is for sure: we cannot continue to sacrifice our peace, our family, and our well-being for jobs that would replace us in a heartbeat. So now, the mission is clear—how do we build a life where rest isn’t a luxury, but a necessity? How do we take time off without waiting for a crisis? And how can YOU start making shifts now before life forces you to? Tap in for this real talk and let’s get serious about what truly matters. Because baby, if it ain't adding to your peace, it's gotta go! P.S. I'm relaunching my travel agency, Ellevate Travel . If you are a current or aspiring travel agent, let me know here . Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girlstopplayin/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy…

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Solo Sermon: Pain Brings Perspective | Episode 198 25:38

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Sis, can y’all believe we’re creeping up on 200 episodes?! And what better time to make this pivot? If you missed last week’s episode, go run it back, because I shared how God has been tugging on my spirit to go deeper—beyond the fluff, beyond the guests, and straight to the mission. This week, I’m getting real about one of the most life-altering moments I’ve ever faced—my husband's heart attack. This experience shook me to my core, but it also brought a new level of clarity, revealing WHO my people are, HOW powerful I truly am, and WHY I can’t place my entire identity in any title—wife, mama, entrepreneur, or otherwise. So I gotta ask you—what is your pain trying to teach you? What lesson has been right in front of you, but you’ve been ignoring it? It’s time to stop playing and start paying attention, because God always has a plan—even in the midst of the storm. Tap in for this raw, unfiltered conversation, and let’s get back to focusing on the STAR player—YOU. ✨💛 P.S. If you’re ready to say YES to all the things you’ve been putting off, I’m right there with you! From voice acting to real estate to relaunching our travel agency—baby, we doing it ALL. Click here below if you’re interested in joining our Elevate Travel movement! 🎙️ Listen to Episode 138: How to be a Gret Girlfriend with Sybil Amuti here Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girlstopplayin/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy…

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Solo Sermon: War Ready | Episode 197 17:58

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Sis, this one is personal. In today’s episode, I’m pulling back the curtain and sharing a life-changing moment that rocked my world, tested my faith, and reminded me just how "War-Ready" I need to be for the people I love. After the year I had, I realized that being a wife, a mother, and a woman of faith means being ready to step up at any moment. This isn’t just a catch-up—it’s a testimony of God’s grace, a lesson in alignment, and a reminder that when life calls, you better be ready to drive. Let’s talk about love, resilience, and the power of obedience. 💪🏾✨ Tap in. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girlstopplayin/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy…

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Is Homeschool Really Possible? Episode 196 35:23

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Sis, it’s time to rethink how we’re setting up the next generation for success. In this episode of Girl Stop Playin , I’m diving into my early homeschool journey, and let me tell you—y’all have questions! While I’m no expert just yet, I found someone who is. I brought on Nicole P. Doyle, a homeschooling veteran and community leader, to share her wisdom, her lessons, and her experience raising and homeschooling four amazing kids (three of whom are now college-bound or graduates—hello, receipts!). 🙌🏾 We’re talking about why so many Black families are turning to homeschooling, how to navigate the challenges of work and education at home, and why community is EVERYTHING. Plus, Nicole is dropping gems about the Flourish Family Homeschool Conference —a can’t-miss event for anyone considering this path. Whether you're curious, ready to dive in, or just want to hear what’s possible when you take education into your own hands, this episode is for you. Let’s rethink, relearn, and reclaim our power as parents. It’s time to work smarter, not harder, and raise these babies with joy, purpose, and everything they deserve. 💕 🎧 Tune in and get inspired! Learn More About Georgia Black Home Educators Network Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girlstopplayin/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy…

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Surviving Mama Trauma w/ Dr. Pam | Episode 195 1:01:59

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On this episode of Girl Stop Playin’. I had the absolute pleasure of sitting down with Dr. Pam, who’s done some serious work on a topic that many of us can relate to, whether we want to admit it or not—the “mother wound.” Now listen, I’ve shared bits of my own journey with my momma, and let me tell you, this conversation hit different. Dr. Pam breaks down how the dynamics between mothers and daughters can shape us in ways we may not even realize until we grow up and start navigating life on our own. Dr. Pam’s seen it all—from women in prison who experienced deep, severe trauma introduced by their mothers, to high-powered professionals who dealt with more subtle forms of emotional neglect. It’s wild how this mother-daughter thing shows up in so many different ways, but the impact? It's real, and it can stick with us for a long time. She even wrote a whole book about it called Surviving Mama—and trust me, this conversation is a must-listen. We got into how, as daughters, we don’t always start seeing our moms as the flawed, complicated women they are until we grow up, get married, or become moms ourselves. That’s when the real work begins. And y’all already know I don’t hold back, so I shared how my own mom used to say, “I love you, but I don’t like you”—which was a LOT to handle growing up. But now, as an adult, I’ve gained perspective and realized just how deep those scars can go. Dr. Pam dropped so much wisdom about the healing process, and how it’s not about blaming our moms, but about understanding the cycles of emotional immaturity and dysfunction we’ve normalized. She also shed light on how unresolved issues with our moms can bleed into sibling relationships—something I know all too well. The biggest takeaway? Healing is possible, but it starts with awareness and giving ourselves grace. We’ve gotta face these wounds, process them, and move forward with intention. This conversation was a reminder that we are not alone in these struggles, and we have the power to heal. So sis, if you’re dealing with your own mother wounds, know that you don’t have to carry that weight forever. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girlstopplayin/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy…

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Managing a Multi-Generational Family Business w/ Dana Frank | Episode 196 34:05

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Today, I have the pleasure of chatting with the incredible Dana Frank! Dana is the general managing partner of her family’s company, Frank Family Properties, and has spent the last 25 years expanding their real estate investments across Washington state and Arizona. Under her leadership, the company has been featured in the Seattle Times and celebrated for its achievements in property management. In this episode, Dana and I dive deep into the dynamics of running a family business, the importance of creating generational wealth, and how to navigate the ups and downs of working with family. Dana shares valuable lessons on instilling a strong work ethic in your children and how to ensure they understand the value of hard work without feeling entitled. We also touch on the current economic climate and Dana’s expert advice on investing in real estate. Plus, we discuss the changes that come with menopause and Dana’s personal journey through it, including practical tips for managing symptoms. Tune in for an enlightening conversation filled with wisdom, practical advice, and inspiring stories that will help you navigate your personal and professional life with confidence. CONNECT: Connect with Dana Online Follow Koe on IG: http://instagram.com/koereyelle Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girlstopplayin/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy…

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Every Moment Matters w/ Kristin Biggs | Episode 194 33:46

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On this episode of Girl Stop Playin, you get to meet the resilient and inspiring Kristin Biggs. Kristin shares her heart-wrenching journey of overcoming unimaginable losses, including the murders of her husband and son. Despite these tragedies, Kristin has channeled her grief into a powerful mission to help others through her book, "Release & Unleash Grief," and her nonprofit organization. She discusses the importance of self-love, resilience, and finding purpose amid pain. This episode is a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the transformative power of faith and community. Join us for an authentic and hopeful conversation that will encourage you to stop playing and start living with purpose and intention. CONNECT: Follow Kristin on IG: http://instagram.com/iamkristinbiggs Follow Koe on IG: http://instagram.com/koereyelle Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girlstopplayin/exclusive-content Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy…

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Your Food Makes Your Mood w/ Crystal Shae Raw | Ep. 193 - 33:59

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