Ep 79: TwentyTwinTwinn (Sharpen up, Sanders!)

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Ep 79: Twenty Twin Twinn (Sharpen up, Sanders!) Money and Nikeeta are back with the first episode of 2020! Money helps us re-energize our resolutions. Nikeeta clears up tensions between Bernie and Warren...and even considers voting democrat! We celebrate chef Nikeisah Newton and Meals for Heels. How can you tell if you have a crush? Where to find us: IG & Twitter - @queerwocpod FB - https://www.facebook.com/QueerWOCpod/ Tumblr - www.QueerWOC.com Listen to us on Soundcloud, Stitcher, Castbox, PocketCasts Contribute to QueerWOC via CashApp: $QueerWOCPod Become a Patron: https://www.patreon.com/queerwocpod Love us out loud by doing The R’s: Rate, Review, Request, Repost, Retweet, and Reply! Use the hashtag #QueerWOC to talk all things the podcast Send us an email or submit your Curved Chronicles: [e-mail] QueerWOC of the Week: 00:06:28 Lesbian chef https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2019/12/meet-lesbian-chef-creating-gourmet-meals-delivering-sex-workers/ Community Contributors: 00:12:00 Shoutout to the New Patrons Jesse, Kandace, Adonay, Sharon, and Stephanie Smalltown Shout outs: Upland, CA; Parker, CO; Antioch, TN Mental Moment with Money 00:27:50 Reenergize those Resolutions!: 4 tips to keep your 2020 goals on track Set learning or change goals instead of achievement goals Pretty well known 1979 Harvard study of MBA students - those with learning oriented goals had higher GPAs on average and reported a better experience overall in their programs Generally, we feel more positively about learning or acquiring than we do about thresholds (why you think we love a good YouTube tutorial so much?) Achievement - I want to pass my licensure exam; Learning - I want to study 3 therapeutic theories outside of the one I love and use regularly Achievement - I want my locs to reach mid back this year; Learning - I want to figure out which oil helps my locs retain moisture Achievement - I want to read one book a month; Learning - I want to discover my favorite Toni Morrison novel this year Make it a challenge rather than a threat Threat - I need to practice for my defense or I will fail it; Challenge - I need to prepare to have the type of defense I want Threat - I need to lose weight or I will get diabetes and have a heart attack; Challenge - I want to find healthy habits that will support my wellbeing Make it meaningful Tie it to a personal value, bc then its internalized Write it down! Writing encourages better memory recall bc it involves neuro senors and fine motor skills. Activates more parts of our brain Writing is grounding! Writing is manifesting That same Harvard study found that those who wrote their goals down out earned their peers by 84%. This is obviously correlation, not causation, but shiiiiiit! I believe in the power of manifesting! Word 00:47:51 Its on sight for Butigege! Nikketa breaks down important differences between the Bernie and Warren campaigns. She highlights 3 tensions between the two candidates. Bernie needs Nikeeta! The Dig on how private insurance limits who becomes doctors .https://www.thedigradio.com/podcast/single-payer-now-with-tim-faust/ Topic: 01:29:06 How do you know when you have a crush on someone? Curved Chronicle: 01:45:23 .