Don’t Look For The Third Thing

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In today's episode, inspired by Marcus Aurelius' wisdom, we dive into the heart of selflessness and the intrinsic value of doing good without seeking rewards. As Aurelius said, “When you’ve done well and another has benefited by it, why like a fool do you look for a third thing on top―credit for the deed or a favor in return?” This powerful reminder encourages us to find fulfillment in our actions themselves, rather than in external validation.

Reflecting on my week, I realized how often I let external expectations shape my happiness. From feeling stuck in a dead-end job to grappling with the disappointment of postponed raises, it's been easy to focus on the negatives. But it's clear that my real struggle has been failing to take responsibility for my own growth and fulfillment.
I’ve faced many humbling experiences, realizing that true leadership and self-discipline require more than just knowledge—they demand emotional intelligence and resilience. While it’s been tough, I'm slowly embracing the challenges and seeing them as opportunities for growth.

Join me on this journey of self-discovery and growth. Let’s navigate our days with the wisdom of the Stoics, focusing on the intrinsic rewards of our actions and finding fulfillment in the simplest deeds. Remember, it’s not about the recognition but about the joy of making a difference. Let's protect our own good and keep moving forward!

Tune in, get inspired, and navigate your day with renewed purpose!

Thank you for listening and joining me on my journey of self-discovery!
Mediations and Prompts influenced from The Daily Stoic Books

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