S1E31. BJ’s Heaux Story: Marriage Coitus, Shamefree Parenting, Body Image

Heauxly Coitus

It’s awkward for me to post a picture of myself. Not because I am self conscious of my body. But it feels weird to say “hey, this is a picture of me that is sexual.” I think it may be due to the fact that humility was hammered into me at a young age and it had both positive and negative consequences. This first picture is of me in my running gear. Being physically fit and how I look after a run or a ride makes me feel sexual. I was taught and taught and taught from a young age that it’s not what’s outside, but inside that counts. And as a “late bloomer” I was always told I was good marriage material or I was a nice guy but nobody seemed to want to date or fuck me. Of course, lots of this is personal body image/purity culture stuff. But being fit has made me feel sexually attractive and vibrant. But I’m also posing in a goofy way which is very much me both in and outside of the bedroom. The second picture is of my bicycle on the longest ride I ever went on. I took this picture in a place called Climax, Colorado. It made me feel fit and I also love to climax. It’s the greatest feeling in the world. . A heaux is a person who is free to engage in and practice their on sexuality, sensuality, and romance in whatever manner that brings themselves and whomever else they engage with pleasure. A heaux is a person that views sexuality through a natural, pleasurable, consensual, emotional, physical, and scientific lens. . You can follow me on Instagram. I have an account that is attempting to create a community of former evangelicals in both Colorado and anywhere else. That handle is @springsformerevangelicals. You can also follow my personal account @bjkarlik. You can follow me on twitter @bj_karlik . @heauxlycoitus 💦For Heaux T-shirts and mugs and bags: https://heauxlycoitus.square.site 💦Come share your heaux story on the pod! Be the next guest. Inbox me, Ms. Heauxly Coitus @heauxlycoitus 💦For pictures, past episodes, and stories: https://heauxlycoitus.home.blog 💦For salacious heaux stories from Ms. Heauxly Coitus, find her column here: https://sheexploreslife.com/category/heauxly-coitus/ . ~To be a heaux is to engage in consensual sex, be kind your yourself and partner(s), creative, fully embodied, unapologetic, powerful, and free.~