Kryptogal - The Hidden Cost of Kids

Subversive w/Alex Kaschuta

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Our conversation explores the decline in birth rates and the reasons behind women choosing to have fewer children, the societal pressure on women to have children, the economic and cultural factors influencing fertility decisions, and the gender divide in the discourse on birth rates. The conversation also delves into the implications of declining birth rates for the future of the West and the challenges of balancing population growth and sustainability, the role of social media and parenting culture in shaping fertility decisions, agency, femininity, parenting, and the impact of internet culture. We also discuss the construction of femininity as opposed to masculinity.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction: Exploring the Decline in Birth Rates

03:15 The Significance of Childbirth for Women

07:00 Gender Divide in Fertility Decisions

11:27 Implications of Declining Birth Rates for the West

13:40 Misconceptions about Fertility and Gender Stereotypes

21:37 Balancing Growth and Sustainability

29:28 Parenting Culture and Social Media Influence

36:17 The Importance of Agency and the Drain of Video Games

39:39 The Construction of Femininity and the Challenges of Parenting

55:09 The Impact of Internet Culture and Generational Divides

01:08:37 Subversive Perspectives

Kryptogal (Kate, if you like) is a pseudonymous, Substack-based writer: Forbidden Closet of Mystery