Happy ABDL Diaper Day (National Diaper day was Oct 24th). JayBDL and I have a very casual chat about diapers, the advancement of abdl & adult diapers over the years and what you can do to celebrate. In all seriousness, every day should be diaper appreciation day so let's all wear one & wet it together in collaborative solidarity & give diaper butt …

Donny and I talk about 7 common mistakes we see people making in AB/DL. And you may be missing out because of these. 1. Thinking that women don't go to events. 2. Not going to event at all.3. Not paying attention to red flags!4. Pushing AB/DL onto others without consent. 5. Confusing fantasy with reality.6. Pigeonholing yourself to one thing. 7. Fi…

Get to know Baby Donny! You've seen him on my youtube videos, maybe seen him or hung with him at one of the many national events he attends... get to know Baby Donnys (Aka. famous pornstar Draven Navarro) ongoing ABDL journey & the secret to his diaper confidence. All my links at Diaperperv.com Baby Donny at Draven Navarro Twitter…

A very LONG WINDED conversation about how to find a good pro-diaper fantasy facilitator and mitigate your risks of getting ripped off. In short (really, this convo could have been a total of 6 minutes long) 1. Remove your emotions during the search process. 2. Vet them! Remember, they're working for you! 3. Communicate what you want out of the expe…

I was highly amused while editing this because I was SO TRIGGERED just talking about it that I could not properly communicate and articulate myself, LOL. All I can do is laugh about it now. Ever since I got online at 19 and found out I was not alone in my interests... I've been scrutinized, been suspicious of, questioned about whether I'm "real" or…

I know it can get boring having ABDL kinks/interests by yourself but Donny, Livewire and JayBDL all chime in with ways they try to keep it entertaining and fun for themselves. Hope you get some new ideas or scenarios to try out & keep it light & fun everyone!Comment below with your favorite solo play ideas!Find me at http://www.diaperperv.comSome o…

For many, diapers + "punishment" go hand in hand. For some, just having someone put the diaper on is punishment enough, but what else is there? I've had SO many requests for AB/DL's whose partners need help for "diaper punishment" ideas & they don't really know what to do. We all pitch in with ideas; Donny & Livewire have some great ones! We also d…

That's right! JayBDL actually told his mom about his diaper fetish & ABDL interests. So how did she react? Listen & find out. Diaperperv & JayDBL discuss who we've all told in our lives & what their reactions were. Why would you even want anyone in your life to know about it?? We discuss that too! NOTE: We were driving as we recorded this (on my ph…

We cover this sex topic AGAIN but in much more detail. It really helps when JayBDL moderates us as we talk about all the different ways to incorporate our diaper fetish with penetrative adult fun! We also cut a hole into the ABU Tiny Tails to make a DSD (diaper s3x diaper!) for some wholesome crafting. Baby Donny can be found on twitter as @draven_…

Earlier this week, @ZaciRoo shared his 2024 ABDL wishlist so now it's my turn to share mine!! I don't think most of these will happen but let's but it out into the ABUniverse anyways. These are not my personal wishes, just general wishes that I think would benefit the community! What's on your AB/DL wishlist this year?? The current AB/DL worldwide …

Why are there so many scammers (successfully) trying to take advantage of AB's and DL's in the scene? What is considered a scam & what is not? @ZaciRoo & I talk about the different ways scammers try to fleece you & the warning signs to look for!More people are probably scammed than we know because it is embarrassing to admit it if you were. Please …

There's been a lot more eyes on the terms AB/DL, ageplayer, diaper lovers & adult babies in the media lately! With that comes a LOT of misconceptions and stereotypes, mainly due to the media & those that aren't great representatives of the lifestyle that talk to the media. Adult babies are not... well you'll just have to watch it! Adult babies are:…

Just in time for Capcon 2024! Baby Donny, my non-ABDL friend Ashley and I (Diaperperv) talk about ways to overcome shyness, get out there and engage with people! There's lot of tips and our own stories. I think almost all of us has been there and events can be quite intimidating when you're new, or not new. It's normal to feel nervous but what if y…

Thanks AB Universe for sending the new Tiny Tails positional printed, plastic backed adult diapers for us to try out! Ok, Donny and I have NEVER done an official product review and I can guarantee it is NOT professional or serious like the other channels that do diaper reviews... ours is a hot mess! But it does include the very important crinkle te…

Ask me ANYTHING about my time as a Diaper Fantasy Facilitator from 2015-2020. Let's tackle some of the hard questions, I go on a mini-rant & what the most # of times someones finished in their diaper?? PART 2 of the questions YOU asked and I answered!! Watch PART 1 of AMA as a diaper fantasy facilitator here: https://youtu.be/avHw8UTkhvI?si=yXPtcSl…

Ask me ANYTHING about my time as a Diaper Fantasy Facilitator for 6 years, from 2015-2020. Let's tackle some of the hard questions, I go on a mini-rant & what the most # of times someones cum in their diaper?? PART 2 of the questions YOU asked and I answered!! Watch PART 1 of AMA as a diaper fantasy facilitator here: https://youtu.be/avHw8UTkhvI?si…

Incon Diaper reviewer & Youtuber ⁠@howtowearadultdiapers⁠ comes over to try on his new Changing Times Diaper Co onesie & I ask him awkward questions... topics he has never talked about on camera!! Yes, I kinda pushed his boundaries & I loved it! Also, Is Capcon too wild!?!? What do you think?! The IG media sure makes it out to be! Watch ⁠ @howtowea…

It's an ASK ME ANYTHING during my time as a pro diaper fantasy facilitator from 2015-late 2020!! You asked and I answered. I was actually hoping you'd ask some SPICIER questions, so these are all pretty tame. This is part 1, where I answer 15 of your questions, no holds barred!! How did I determine prices? Grossest thing that happened? Difficult cl…

It's an ASK ME ANYTHING during my time as a pro diaper fantasy facilitator from 2015-late 2020!! You asked and I answered. I was actually hoping you'd ask some SPICIER questions, so these are all pretty tame. This is part 1, where I answer 15 of your questions, no holds barred!! How did I determine prices? Grossest thing that happened? Difficult cl…

There's been a number of different books on the topic of AB/DL, ageplay and infantilism (whatever words is being used in that era.) So are they good or bad overall? I "try" to stay unbiased but I think you can tell by my facial expressions how I feel about certain authors I am holding. @howtowearadultdiapers does a fantastic job of staying neutral …

Diaperperv has never been to any of the AB/DL smaller house party/weekend gatherings & she's only been to either conventions or munches. Her friend Greejay has ONLY been to the smaller scale weekend house parties. So let's walk through how to go to one of these events & what happens. If you're new to my podcast, I also have 3 years worth of AB/DL e…

Incon Diaper reviewer & Youtuber @howtowearadultdiapers comes over to try on his new Changing Times Diaper Co onesie & I ask him awkward questions... topics he has never talked about on camera!! Yes, I kinda pushed his boundaries & I loved it! Also, Is Capcon too wild!?!? What do you think?! The IG media sure makes it out to be! Watch @howtowearadu…

There's a lot of DL's (Diaper Lovers) that personally don't feel like events labelled as ABDL & ageplay don't pertain to them. So JayBDL and I (Diaperperv) chat about it! There are indeed DLs that go to ABDL events & sometimes they do some of the ageplay things to fit in. There are a lot of ageplayers that started as DLs first. If you're a DL, what…

JayBDL and I (Diaperperv) talk about when your interests in diapers wane/cycle off/don't interest you. We deep dive into why it might happen. How often it happens for us & if we get concerned when it does (I certainly do!) I question what we are & aren't in control of & how it worries me. Have you ever been not interested in diapers? NOT a purge, b…

JayBDL and I have a casual conversation about my 1st Capcon experience & how nervous I was. I went alone & didn't know what to expect... What was it like walking into the hotel & what happened after?? IT WAS TERRIFIYING but I did it and 1000's of folks have done it over the years, so you can too! I still have anxiety when I crush on someone; I'll f…

I answer your questions you asked me on social media, 2023 edition! Stuff like:How was the scene changed?How should I tell my family?Has my interests changed?Advice for living in rural areas?Would I have my own brand of AB/DL diapers & many more! Find all my links at http://www.diaperperv.com

It's my first solo video in awhile so I panic attacked & blanked out through all of this video! Someone asked "How to ABDL cons compare to other cons" so I made a video about it! There's a lot of similarities regarding programming & activities but what are the differences? Who goes to cons & why? I do my best to try and answer these while blanking …

Are you ABDL & also either bi or bicurious?? You're NOT alone & there's quite a few of you out there from my personal experience (yay!) but it's kinda hard to share that with others when you're not comfortable with your own thoughts of being not entirely heterosexual. Let's talk about it!!Donny is bi & I (Diaperperv) have experimented when I was yo…

I catch up with Baby Donny as he talks about his big New York trip for his 40th birthday! It just happened to be Folsom East in NY & how does it compare to Folsom West in San Fransisco? Fire island fun & also Pup Kenzo's Littlez Party NYC was a great turnout!Follow Donny at http://www.twitter.com/draven_navarroFind me (Diaperperv) at http://www.dia…

JayBDL & Diaperperv sit down to create his fantasy AB/DL medical scene. I've made a video about "Communicating your Fantasies" but what does person to person negotiations look like in real life?We talk about all the elements involved! From the storyline beginning-middle-end, to implements and props. THEN, we're gonna FILM IT!! (It'll be on my store…

More SPICY ABDL questions Part 2. We answer random questions from a question box except this time, all 3 of us answer the same questions.! This one isn't as exciting as the 1st one we did: https://youtu.be/ZHhkScsEDlY because the questions were kinda... meh. At one point, I thought Donny fell asleep. Diaperpervs links are all at http://www.diaperpe…

Why does it appear there's less kinky women online than men?I think I may have figured out one reason... because they're inundated with creepy messages right off the bat.... and I'm NOT even a diaper girl so I can't imagine how many crazy messages they get. This is why I chose to lurk online when I was younger. I read a small sampling of the ridicu…

BB Donny & Diaperperv do a deep psychological exploration of why people enjoy spanking, both as the giver and the receiver. How and why does one enjoy it? How does it relate to his little space? and which implements to use for what purpose. I have SO many questions! Do you enjoy spankings? All diaperpervs links at http://www.diaperperv.com Donny ca…

BB Donny just came back from IML (International Mr Leather) in Chicago where there were diaper boys & diaper parties. We have a chill hangout & chat about his experiences at Mr Leather, diapers in kink/BDSM spaces & that we both can't go to Diaperactive in July, which totally sucks. I'm trying a NEW unstructured hangout, chill conversation format r…

Have you been messaging other AB/DLs online and getting few or no responses? Even we message people and don't get responses because maybe we're not their thing. BUT let's evaluate what you're writing, what WE personally respond to and how we can craft interesting messages with intent for a higher probability for someone to respond to! Livewire25, B…

I had made a "How to Join the Community" in early 2020 on my youtube channel, but here's a more updated version! Livewire25, Baby Donny! and I discuss stuff like:Does the AB/DL community even exist?Setting realistic expectations.Then we talk about the 4 most common things that people complain about when entering:"No ones getting back to me""There's…

I bought a deck of random sex questions so guests Baby Donny & Livewire25 and I take turns in answering them pertaining to AB/DL and diapers. Just a light hearted, fun episode. How do you incorporate sex/intimacy with your fetish? Diaperpervs youtube channel! All Diaperpervs Links here! Donny's on Twitter. Livewire25 is on Fetlife…

Welcome again friends! Todays video is a segway from @ZaciRoo last weeks video on breaking the "Binge & Purge" cycle. If we are accepting of our kinks/fetishes & interests, maybe we wouldn't purge as much or at all! We share our own personal stories of our journey & how we found our own internal acceptance!! With Zaciroo , Livewire25, Greejay & Sai…

Diaperperv & BB Donny (@Draven_Navarro on Twitter) talks about his AB/DL convention, Capcon 2023 experience & why he had a meltdown one night. We reflect on how he would do it differently and how important communicating expectations are. Then we talk about why I chose not to go to Capcon "Because I don't believe in community" and get excited about …

ALL MY RANTS everywhere all at once. I just need to get all my pet peeves out of my system since they're bleeding into other episodes in some way or another. I'm sure you have your own set of rants & peeves about the AB/DL world. My opinions are my own & I know my experiences will be unique to all your experiences. After this, let's try and concent…

The 4 letters of ABDL (adult baby diaper lover) can encompass any number of interests but not everyone even identifies as AB/DL? Do you identify with this umbrella term & what does it mean to you. Why is it important to define HOW you AB/DL? So you can seat goals on what you want out of all this and also explain to others how you engage or want to …

ABDL Lifestyle Podcast with your host Diaperperv & assorted friends! In this first episode, we share our most embarrassing AB/DL stories involving our favorite article of clothing, our crinkly undies! We've got Livewire25, SailorinDips and Greejay sharing some hilarious & horrifying stories, some on military ships! Hit subscribe for more AB/DL life…

Join Diaperperv & AB/DL friends, Zaciroo, Greejay, SailorinDips & Livewire25 on a panel discussion about dealing with emergency dip situations such as diaper tapes ripping, leaking in public and more! All my links here! This is diaperpervs new podcast covering AB/DL & Diaper Lover lifestyles, observations and opinions on a variety of topics!…