No Nut November: A worthy pursuit? We discuss: Semen retention NoFap Orgasm without ejaculation The remedy for “blue balls” To porn or not to porn Running marathons—and even ultramarathons—after sex, giving a whole new twist on “Have LOTS of sex before the big game” If you want to dive deeper into the whole Orgasm without Ejaculation topic, also ch…

Who's yo daddy?? “Oh no! Some old men won’t let me use my uterus the way I want to!” Every few years, this issue becomes a hot topic, and people get their panties in a bunch. Why on earth did you give your reproductive power to a bunch of old men? And to be fair, some women too. It always floors me to hear so-called feminists and “women’s rights ac…

Sex can be used as an escape, to make you UNconscious. Or, it can be used to bring you MORE conscious and elevate you and every part of your life. We’re all about orgasmic enlightenment in these parts. Sex is alchemy. It’s transformation. It’s taking your base parts and fusing them into gold. You can use sex to help you to move through challenges a…

One of the biggest sex and relationship myths out there is the notion that lifelong sex is an impossibility. In today’s episode, I’m speaking to Well-Fucked All Star Jeff, of the Well-Fucked Couple Jeff and Jen. They did a year of Anami, where they signed up for all of my courses and dedicated themselves to up-levelling their sex lives. They’ve bee…

What Is a Pussy Whisperer? A man who knows his way around a woman and a pussy. He coaxes that pussy into openness and orgasms. In today’s episode we have a compilation of some great Well-F**ked All Star pussy whispering clips and they’ll share their own secrets to success. And I’ll give you the 7 Golden Rules of Pussy Whispering. ** If you’re ready…

No, men, I am NOT coming for your orgasm. In fact, I want you to have better, bigger, wilder orgasms that get you high. And also: Make you more money and advance your career Make you more alpha and less beta Increase your Axe-Factor attractiveness to women Boost your fitness and make you able to pump harder at the gym Make you into a legendary Supe…

There are a LOT of potential reasons—plural!—why your woman doesn’t want to have sex with you. Contrary to popular social programming, women are sexually voracious. Insatiable even. Once you turn them on and open them up, they are a well that never runs dry. So why isn’t your woman voracious with you? Find out in today’s episode. Sexual Mastery for…

What happens when you inhabit your masculine strength and power? You also inhabit your cock. Because you know—what you focus on grows. As you show up in your life and you start bending it over and pulling it by the hair and having your way with it, life opens up to you. Your woman opens up to you. When you put in the time and effort to transform yo…

When your woman is resistant to going deeper with you emotionally and sexually, what can you do? How do you open her? In today’s episode, Matt shares his story of meeting his wife-to-be as a virgin and from a repressed cultural upbringing and how she blossomed into a gushing, salacious “I love getting on my knees for you” insatiable cock monster. W…

How to be irresistible. What’s the milkshake that brings all the boys to the yard? How can you draw good things to you in your life? In our Well-F**ked all star adventures we hear of men crossing eight lanes of traffic to ask a woman for her number. Or making websites just to ask them on dates. Yes. All true stories. So what is this uber-attractive…

Who does it better? Ozempic? Or Anami-style gourmet sex? In today’s episode: Anami Weight Loss Recipe My secret to a flat belly Which orgasms are best for weight loss The alchemy of orgasms and their trauma-clearing potential Featuring Alexa who lost 76 pounds: “The weight just dropped off”. She also evaporated a throat and vaginal cyst And Robin w…

It's never too late to be a multi-orgasmic, lubricating and ejaculating well-f**ked woman. Today’s Well-F**ked All Star is Michelle. At the age of 60, she left a stifling 40-year marriage. A year later, at 61, she’s the most well-f**ked she’s ever been in her life. I LOVE hearing when people have the courage to leave something that deep down they k…

One of the holy grails in the sexual queendom is squirting. This is a necessary life skill for women and one that ALL women can cultivate. The Anami Guarantee is that EVERY woman can hit the ceiling with her ejaculate. Her “amrita” is like cosmic manifesting dust that gets shot over her whole life, imbuing it with a kind of radiance and magnetism t…

If your orgasms aren't changing your life, are you even having sex? In Anami Land, your sex dates become sacred, set-in-stone, non-negotiable parts of your life, because you know the benefits they bring. They are your sanctuary, refuelling station, anti-depressant and anti-anxiety pill, creative inspiration and cash generators all at once. There is…

We’ve all heard the expressions: “Tight ass.” “They’ve got a real stick up their ass.” This is legit urban slang meets deep psychological truth. These people actually DO need something shoved up their ass. Anal orgasms are very similar to cervical orgasms in women. They are transcendent, deep and cosmic. In men, the G-Spot is the prostate gland, co…

When you give yourself ALL the fucks, you have no fucks left to give. I always say that one of the hallmarks of becoming a well-fucked woman—or a well-fucked man—is that you reach the pinnacle stage of not giving a fuck what anyone thinks of you. You have such clarity in your own truth, AND the confidence to act upon it in your life, that you give …

I’ve recently been on a transformative fitness journey and am now in the best shape of my life. Today’s episode is a personal share on: How I became fit as f**k All things aging, or rather, anti-aging My personal heroes My diet and exercise routine 80 is the new 50 What I say to people who ask me to post pictures of “normal” people’s bodies *** My …

“Shadow work” is a hot topic these days. The reason why I say that sexual shadow work is THE most powerful shadow work—and I’d assert the only shadow work anyone really needs—is because there is SO MUCH taboo, repression, misinformation about all things sexual. And it runs SO deep. Whether it’s outright physical violation, genital mutilation or abs…

Sex is medicine. As Director for the Center of Underfucked Disease Control, the CUFDC, I am constantly looking at what makes the best sex, and giving people the prescriptions they need to elevate their sex lives. I’m the best doctor ever. And one of the only ones who shows people how to heal themselves. Did you know you can find God up your ass? An…

Well-F**ked All Stars Jeff and Jen have been married for 30 years. They found my work last year and have been on an Anami pilgrimage ever since! They also happen to be endurance athletes. When they heard my philosophy of multi-hour and multi-day sex dates, it was game on! You’ll hear them share their story of turning around their relationship of th…

Well-F**ked All Stars Alexis and Mitchell made 2023 their year of Anami. They’ve implemented pretty much every element of my philosophy and teachings into their lives and bed. Then they took it to the next level, Anami-style, by committing to six months of daily sex: “It started as a 180-day pact, and now it’s just a way of living.” Before you prot…

Last week we talked about the 5 Sexiest Things a Man Can Do. This week, we’re all about the women. What makes a woman irresistible? What are the qualities of the feminine that speak to the primal, archetypal masculine, turning him on and bringing him to his knees? What brings out his guttural manliness that inspires him to throw her over his should…

The seduction guide for men. I guarantee that the following techniques have opened many a heart and legs, bringing them to their knees, and giving them deep, life-changing orgasms. These truly are the keys to the queendom. I can give Neil Strauss a run for his money with the Anami Game Protocol. Here’s how to game the chicks. In this episode: My to…

But make it sexy. In a conscious relationship, we transmute our emotional connection and sexual energy into rejuvenating, healing and pro-creative power. We realize our relationship—and specifically our sex life—is the engine that fuels our entire lives. In this episode: 9 signs of a conscious relationship The daily sex prayer: get on your knees Th…

“If you’re not scared shitless, you’re not aiming high enough.” Today’s episode is all about going all in. Making bold moves, taking big chances. Every single life-defining moment I’ve ever had, has always come down to how much courage I displayed in the moment. Did I step up to the plate? Did I push myself out of my comfort zone and take a risk fo…