The Cartography of Commitment - Charting the Terrain of Lasting Relationships

I4L, Tips to Greatness: Navigating Life with Insightful Information (T2G Series)

Ever wondered how some couples seem to effortlessly navigate the ebbs and flows of a relationship while others flounder at the first sign of trouble? This episode unpacks the secrets of enduring partnerships, merging the wit of George Bernard Shaw with the time-tested wisdom of ancient precepts. We traverse the landscape of love, from the importance of fostering a secure attachment style to mastering the subtle art of communication. Revelations await as we dissect the principles that underpin a lasting connection, whether you're navigating the waters of monogamy or the seas of ethical non-monogamy. Alongside these principles, a list of recommended reading is provided to deepen understanding and support continuous relationship growth. Tune in and discover the elements that, if embraced, could pave the way to more fulfilling and enduring relationships.
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Further reading for each "commandment":
Secure Attachment Style:
Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help YouFind - and Keep - Love by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller - Link for purchase here: https://a.co/d/8x6WEt8
Open Communication:
Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life by Marshall Rosenberg - Link for purchase here: https://a.co/d/hv49d3c
Maintain Physical and Emotional Intimacy:
The Sex-Starved Marriage: Boosting Your Marriage Libido: A Couple's Guide by Michele Weiner Davis - Link for purchase here: https://a.co/d/fDE1YGZ
Respect Partner's Individuality:
Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships by David Schnarch - Link for purchase here: https://a.co/d/hYKdmNB
Embrace Vulnerability and Balance:
The Power of Vulnerability: Teachings of Authenticity, Connection, and Courage by Brené Brown - Link for purchase here: https://a.co/d/4rGPC38
Commit to Mutual Respect and Consent:
The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love, 3rd Edition by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton - Link for purchase here: https://a.co/d/h7Cje4a
Endure Hardship Together:
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman and Nan Silver - Link for purchase here: https://a.co/d/3rkSC7G
Admit Faults and Pursue Growth:
Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead by Brené Brown - Link for purchase here: https://a.co/d/4VduXg9
Support Partner's Growth and Goals:
His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage by Willard F. Harley Jr. - Link for purchase here: https://a.co/d/4dthcYH
Respect Partner's Individuality:
Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships by David Schnarch - Link for purchase here: https://a.co/d/hYKdmNB
Foster Shared Values and Goals:
The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate by Gary Chapman - Link for purchase here: https://a.co/d/ivInIDm
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