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Need help with sexual addiction, pornography, or sexual purity issues? You are not alone. We are walking the road of recovery, and this podcast is a casual approach to finding help, hope, and healing.
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This podcast is dedicated to Rethinking Porn Addiction. Every week we'll have a live conversation to provide tools, resources, and language to help couples and individuals struggling with porn problems. Our goal is to help you find peace and connection, generate trust, and create a gameplan to help you move forward confidently in your life and in your relationships.
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Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 130: Disrupting Demand: The Hidden Link Between Porn and Trafficking
https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/Episode-130.mp3 In this powerful conversation, Chris sits down with Joe Madison, founder of Demand Disruption, an organization dedicated to ending human trafficking by addressing the demand side—the buyers. Joe exposes some of the hardest truths about exploitation, pornography, and the cultural atti…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/Episode-129_-The-First-90-Days_-Building-Your-Foundation-for-Freedom.mp3 The first 90 days of recovery can feel overwhelming, disorienting, and emotionally exhausting — but they’re also the most transformational part of the journey. In this episode, Chris walks through what makes the early stages of…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/Episode-128_-Brian-Shillingburg-Interview.mp3 Join Chris today as he interviews Brian Shillingburg. Brian is the founder of 9th Inning Project, where he walks with men out of pornography and sexual compulsivity through honest conversation, courageous accountability, and the transforming power of Jes…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/09/Episode-127_-Dan-Johnson-Interview.mp3 Today, Chris is interviewing Dan Johnson. Dan was on Episode 106 where he introduced his P.A.T.H. Plan. Today, he unpacks more of his strategy for recovery by telling us about a concept he calls the Frontline Framework. In order to have a solid recovery, you fi…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/09/Episode-126_-Jake-Kastleman-Interview.mp3 Many of us men don’t understand how to relate to our addiction with compassion. We get sober by suppressing the “addict parts” of our mind, without realizing the roots of our behaviors and what those parts were trying to do for us. We sit on top of them, try…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/09/Episode-125_-Building-a-Transformation-Playbook.mp3 In this episode, Chris wraps up the series on the Transformational Recovery Matrix (TRM) by equipping men with a practical Transformation Playbook. After exploring the four quadrants—Trivial, Trapped, Transactional, and Transformational—we now land…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/08/Episode-124_-Transformational_-Living-in-Integrity.mp3 In this episode, Chris unpacks the Transformational Recovery Matrix—a simple but powerful way to see where you are in your recovery journey. The four quadrants—Trivial, Trapped, Transactional, and Transformational—show the difference between jus…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/08/Episode-123_-Transactional_-Living-in-Compliance.mp3 In this episode, we explore the Transactional Quadrant—where recovery becomes more about checking boxes than changing hearts. You may be sober, but are you truly free? We discuss the difference between compliance and transformation, the trap of re…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/07/Episode-122_-Trapped_-Living-in-Captivity-v2.mp3 Welcome back to The Purity Podcast, sponsored by Castimonia, a Christ-centered 12-step recovery program for men battling sexual addiction. In today’s episode, we dive into the Trapped Quadrant of the Transformational Recovery Matrix—the place where de…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/Episode-121_-Trivial-–-Living-in-Denial.mp3 In this powerful episode, Chris continues the series on the Transformational Recovery Matrix (TRM) by diving deep into the Trivial Quadrant—where most men begin their journey into recovery. Marked by low awareness and low action, the Trivial Quadrant is wh…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/Episode-120_-The-Transformational-Recovery-Matrix.mp3 In this episode of The Purity Podcast, Chris introduces the Transformational Recovery Matrix. Chris created this powerful tool to help men identify where they are in their recovery journey and how to move toward true, Christ-centered transformati…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/04/Episode-119_-Relentless-Pursuit_-What-Could-Stop-You.mp3 What could stop you from becoming the man God has called you to be? In this personal episode, Chris explores the potential obstacles on the path to purity and integrity, driven by his commitment to recovery from past unfaithfulness and sexual …
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/Episode-118_-Robert-Switala-Interview.mp3 Today on Episode 18, Chris has the privilege of interviewing Robert Switala. Robert is an engineer by trade turned Licensed Mental Health Counselor. He is the owner of Mindview Mental Health Counseling. Chris invited Robert to join the podcast today when he …
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/Season-8-Episode-17_-Purity-Podcast-Holiday-Edition.mp3 The holidays can bring joy and celebration, but they can also amplify struggles—whether it’s stress, loneliness, or old habits trying to creep back in. But here’s the good news: Christmas isn’t about surviving; it’s about thriving through the r…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/Season-8-Episode-16_-Deborah-Schiller-and-Erick.mp3 On today’s episode, Chris is joined by Deborah Schiller and Erick, where Erick will share his journey from an early childhood porn addiction that escalated into child sexual abuse images and his ultimate arrest. Deborah, has a Master of Science in …
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/11/Season-8-Episode-15_-Theology-as-Recovery.mp3 On the Purity Podcast today, Chris discusses theology as recovery with Mike. Mike is a regular recovery guy like you and me. He approached me with this topic as a result of his growth in recovery when he discovered that while books on recovery are fantas…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/Season-08-Episode-14.mp3 Today I’m interviewing Chelsea and Layton Boovie of liberator podcast. Chelsea and Layton are on mission to help couples understand the impact of pornography and equip those couples to find restoration in their marriages. To learn more about Chelsea and Layton and their reso…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/09/Season-8-Episode-13_-Kelton-and-Lynson-1.mp3 Today Chris tackles a sensitive topic with the help of Kelton and Lynson. Today we’re exploring a topic that’s close to the hearts of many but can be difficult to discuss—same-sex attraction. I know this subject can be deeply personal and complex, touchin…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/Season-8-Episode-12_-Developing-a-Recovery-Plan.mp3 Developing a structured plan with specific goals and action steps can be very beneficial in maintaining sobriety and recovery from sexual addiction. Join Chris today as he unpacks a few of his best practices. Here’s a breakdown of potential goals a…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/07/Season-8-Episode-11_-Salvation-Pin.mp3 In today’s episode, Chris takes a break from sobriety and recovery topics to discuss the most important thing regarding sobriety and recovery…a relationship with Jesus Christ. Chris’s brother will be in Paris for about 10 days with International Sports Chaplain…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Season-8-Episode-10_-Chrisdom-Part-2.mp3 Today in Season 8 Episode 10, Chris picks up where he left off on something he calls Chrisdom. Have you ever looked at someone with multiple years of sobriety and thought, “How the heck did they do that?!” Today, Chris shares some of his pro tips, lessons lea…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Season-8-Episode-9_-Chrisdom.mp3 Today in Season 8 Episode 9, Chris is flying solo again. Today, he introduces something he’ll be sprinkling in future episodes. Something he calls Chrisdom. Have you ever looked at someone with multiple years of sobriety and thought, “How the heck did they do that?!”…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/05/Season-8-Episode-8_-Interview-with-Steve-Etner.mp3 I’m interviewing The Purity Coach, Steve Etner. He has a point of purity program that will equip and train you in how to overcome porn addiction. His plan is Bible based and Christ centered, and he can help you create a strategic plan for ongoing pu…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/Season-8-Episode-7_-The-Road-to-Recovery.mp3 Found yourself in a place you never thought you’d be? The shame and hopelessness sexual addiction and compulsive sexual behaviors can ignite are real…but there is hope. Today Chris talks about how he entered recovery and reached sobriety early on. The dif…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/Season-8-Episode-6_-Dan-Johnson-Interview.mp3 Today I’m excited to interview Dan Johnson from New Paths. I recently listened to Dan’s podcast and was blown away by his simple, yet profound method for how he stopped watching porn. Grab a pen and paper or open up your favorite note-taking app to captu…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/Season-8-Episode-5.mp3 Today, I’m talking with Jorge, about the importance of community as it relates to recovery. I had no idea that rats would be a part of this conversation. Join us on the next episode of the purity podcast where I interview Dan Johnson from New Paths. Dan has created a really in…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/Season-8-Episode-4_-Healthy-Sexuality.mp3 Jorge joins Season 8 for the first time to talk about Healthy Sexuality. The conversation (that involved a lot of editing, lol) is designed to help men understand what healthy sexuality looks like and steps needed to help move from unhealthy sexuality into h…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Season-8-Episode-3_-Mark-Denison-Interview.mp3 In Episode 3 Chris interviews Mark Denison to talk about his new book, Recovery Rules. In his book Mark gives 100 crazy awesome rules to a healthy recovery. We touch on several of the rules, talk about the difference between sobriety and recovery, and c…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Season-8-Episode-2_-Thomas-Berry-Interview.mp3 Join Chris as he interviews Thomas Berry from Redemptive Living. Thomas was the speaker at the Castimonia Retreat in November of 2023 and he gives a recap from his sessions. Thomas also shares some observations he had from the retreat and we unpack some…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Season-8-Episode-1.mp3 After 7 years of hosting the Purity Podcast Doug has passed the baton to Chris. Today, Chris introduces himself and welcomes you into his journey of recovery as well as your own. You may find yourself in a very dark place right now, but you are not alone, and there is hope. He…
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Listen in as Chris, Jorge and Doug talk about the illustration of darkness vs. Light. We walk through struggles of so many in our lives, and it is so helpful to remember the light and joy that is in us. That gives us wisdom and strength to continue the journey. This is also Doug’s last episode at the host, and Chris is taking over the next 100! Dou…
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https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/Do-You-Want-To-Get-Well_-Sex-Addiction-Recovery-and-Healing.mp3 Listen in as Chris and Doug talk about the connection to Jesus healing the man at the pool to their recovery journey. The pain to change has to be greater than the pain of changing…and what does change look like? If you have questions o…
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Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 98: The Lord’s Prayer and how it applies to sex addiction recovery
Doug and Chris discuss each line of the Lord’s Prayer to see how it might apply to your recovery and your walk. It is a powerful way to look into how our higher power can still practically walk with us and provide support. If you have questions or want to reach out, please email us at [email protected], and remember that on this path of …
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Join Thomas and Doug as they discuss the hope and freedom possible in recovery. Listen to his testimony of what worked for him to establish sobriety as well as the patterns he puts into practice now. If you have questions or want to reach out, please email us at [email protected], and remember that on this path of recovery, you are not w…
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Thomas discusses his addiction with Doug. His testimony is one that will resonate with many men. He discusses his upbringing and struggles throughout young life as well as those as an adult. He takes us through the story of brokenness and searching that leads to finding healing and hope. That part of the story is Part B, so listen to that too! If y…
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Doug discussing the imagery of white noise, and how that analogy can play out in recovery. What are the items that distract us from experiencing all of life? What are we training ourselves to “not hear” in life? How can we find out the white noise affects in our life? Join in to find some practical tips! If you have questions or want to reach out, …
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Join Doug as he talks with Chris about his journey of addiction and life choices that led him out of darkness. Chris shares how counselors, friends, Castimonia, and other avenues brought hope and light to his life. He is living a life of a true changed person, so listen in to learn more about that journey. Part B is the next episode so please liste…
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Join Doug as he talks with Chris about his journey of addiction and life choices that led him into darkness. Part A is the testimony of how life can become unmanageable and out of control. It is a story of how secrets and darkness can take more and more root in our lives when we are not guarded against them. Part B is the next episode so please lis…
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Notes from Doug’s iPhone Listen in as Doug talks about how to strive to not use perfection as the standard, how to seek to not envy, and how to dig into the past. This is a random episode of items from my notes taken during seminars, lessons, and sermons. Hopefully some of it lands on your heart. If you have questions or want to reach out, please e…
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Change is…Chaotic Change is traumatic, chaotic. It fed my addict. Its something prior to recovery that I depended on. A function of my self reliance and self-will. I needed change. I used it as a crutch to defer judgment, to hide lies, betrayals, my own sins. The post Journal Through Recovery – Bonus Episode #24 Change is…Chaotic appeared first on …
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The New Man Podcast airing on Purity Podcast this week. – Jorge and Doug talk about Sex Addiction Recovery Here are the notes from the New Man podcast episode that we are airing on our channel. Check out his great resources below! Doug & Jorge are from Castimonia, an organization that helps men recover from sexual brokenness. Having both been throu…
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Join Kenneth as he shares his testimony and life-long battle with sex addiction as it relates to early childhood sexual trauma. This episode is designed to help men realize that they are not the only ones that may be hurting in this way, struggling to find true freedom, or reaching a point they feel is “too far gone.” You are not too far gone, and …
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Join Kenneth as he shares his testimony and life-long battle with sex addiction as it relates to early childhood sexual trauma. This episode is designed to help men realize that they are not the only ones that may be hurting in this way, struggling to find true freedom, or reaching a point they feel is “too far gone.” You are not too far gone, and …
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Join in on Doug and Chris’s conversation on how to help equip families and parents to talk about sex, pornography, and addiction. Chris has a new book out on the topic, and learn some practical tips from him and his life experiences as well as his counseling expertise. If you have questions or want to reach out, please email us at puritypodcast@cas…
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Episode 90: You See What You Want to See Episode 90: You See What you Want to See–Sex Addiction Recovery Tips Doug disucsses how in life we can get so focused on one aspect or action that we create a filter in which we see “everything.” Doug discusses how gratitude and positive thinking are more than just strategies that you can read about in the s…
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Episode 23: Our Biggest Sexual Health Lessons
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We've been doing this show for around 6 months... We came into this not knowing what to expect. To say our lives have been changed is an understatement. Today we're going to do a recap of some of our favorite takeaways since we started the show. We might take a bit of a break after this episode as we RETHINK (see what I did there?) what we want the…
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Episode 22: What is a Sexual Health Plan?
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Now that we know the 6 Principles of Sexual Health, it's time to create our own Sexual Health Plan. Just like physical fitness, if we want to get healthy, it helps to develop a plan. The plan helps us move towards our goals, avoid damaging behaviors, and develop healthy habits. The plan typically involves some sort of support system. And our abilit…
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Episode 21: Using the 6 Principles of Sexual Health as a Framework For Your Sexual Ethics
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A few weeks ago, Utah's governor signed a bill to make porn filters mandatory on any mobile device or tablet sold in the state. This prompted an interesting conversation within our group about sexual ethics. The conversation was so interesting that we decided to stop having it without sharing it with you... So we're having it here. Today we're talk…
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Episode 15: Rules of Engagement
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Do you want to eradicate shame, and rebuild trust? Do you want honesty and transparency to thrive in your relationship? Well, telling the truth (or not keeping secrets) is only ONE part of honesty. The other part is making sure you have created an environment where your partner feels safe to be honest. In order for true honesty to exist, you HAVE t…
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Episode 14: Taking Responsibility for Your Sexual Shame
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Anyone who is struggling with porn problems is struggling with shame. You don't get one without the other. In our last episode, we talked about shame, where it comes from, and how it impacts us and our relationships. How it makes us want to hide... How it makes us feel unloveable... How it sends us into cycles of negative behavior and self-loathing…
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